男人心胸要广阔

have you encounter situations whereby you are forced to work with ppl u hate or worse u need their help, you know u hate it but u still have to please them coz there is no other way out. if you are in such situation, bear with it, tell yourself 吃得苦中苦，方为人上人. 风水轮流转，some day they will have to beg you. but treat them well if that day comes, coz revenge isn't the solution, we don't follow other ppl's bad behaviors, why reduce yourself to their level. i learn to tolerate, forgive and forget. i rather assign my brain cells to more worthy tasks such as remembering parents' birthdays (which i still can't remember--me bad son).

your money or your life

something i really want comes with a big price tag but it will change my life so i decided to get it. money has no real value when you don't use it. money is our servant, don't need to treasure it, make it work for you as hard as possible and the best part is, they keep coming back! (provided you are a good master..) i should have realised this long ago and already wacking my own backside for the slow action! JOY is priceless!

EURO 2008

the opening match just ended and now waiting for the next match to start. every 2 yr will have to stay up late at nite for international football. still rmb the last euro was when we were in sec 4, we had math remedials early in the morning but still, sacrificing sleep was nothing new. and now, i have to work at 10 in the morning later but who cares.

read this once in a while!

went to the screening of krystal's final ya projects on mon nite. was very impressed by some of the productions. there is one line in one of the film that really caught my attention --第二名永远是第一个输的

不知何时开始对比赛丧失了斗志，可能应为太久没有尝到胜利的滋味，又或许被多次的失败削弱了意志。仔细想想，真正的原因因该是我太渴望从比赛当中得到快感，不想让压力影响表现，所以总跟自己说输赢不用紧，最终要享受比赛的过程。但我发现，一旦脑海里有了‘输赢都不用紧’的想法，潜意识里自然而让就给了自己一个退缩的借口，同时也把自己从比赛中淘汰出局。我发现，比赛最大的快感还是胜利！

i still rmb the line cheryl keep saying--winning is not everything, wanting to win is!